i'm a believer and i'm back ;)

We may have been in baby land around here.

one thing is totally and completely for sure, i am a believer in An Apple a Day!  Why, you ask?

with 5 children and everything else life dishes out, if you don't love your spouse on purpose, it doesn't happen often enough.

thankfully Zach and I have love bank accounts that have been invested in.  we have been able to navigate this transition and laugh more than we've disagreed.  we still love each other and actually love each other more as of today, i'm happy to report. ;)

yes, i believe in being focussed on your marriage and what YOU, yourself can do to make it better. putting all the responsibility for your comfort and happiness in the hands of your spouse, sure is an easy trap to fall into....especially after you've had a baby.

i have learned a few things in the last few months and have been reminded of others.  one thing is that i need to blog.  if i don't, all these ideas and thoughts race around and around in my head almost driving me batty.  i need to blog them out!

so, you've been warned. ;)

til next time,

Becca :)