"By small and simple things, great {marriages} are brought to pass!
If an apple a day can keep the doctor away, then a kind deed a day will give you a healthier and happier marriage. Now, that IS a great thing!
Showing posts with label affection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label affection. Show all posts

Monday, October 7, 2013

Do it!

So, did you watch Conference?!  I LOVE, love, LOVE Conference!  I will most definitely be watching and reading it over and over again.

There were some wonderful talks and some that I felt were just for me.  During those talks it seemed like that's when my kids were extra vocal..."did they say prayer?!, no they said "dare"...yeah, they said prayer....sweet!, BINGO!".  Oh I don't know, it was just hard to listen.

Even still, I did feel the Spirit and I did feel a renewed motivation to be better.  The talk by Elder Maynes I think, said,  "we can't get our bodies in physical shape by watching sports on T.V., we also can't gain a testimony by watching General Conference on T.V."

So, it's time to decide what I will DO and DO IT!

It was kind of funny to get on Facebook and Instagram after conference and see how quickly some quotes were made into cuteness and circulating.  Awesome too, though.  There was one quote that was super catchy that I liked along with everyone else.

"Doubt your doubts before you doubt your Faith" -President Uchtdorf

This can be angled to anything or anyone you have faith in, Jesus Christ or other people too.  Like your spouse.

Have you ever doubted your spouse?

Doubt your doubts and give them the benefit!  Believe they are truly trying and they are doing the best they can.  Encourage them.  Love them.  Try to understand.  Try to help.  Be kind.  Remember who instills doubt.  Satan does not want us to give our spouse the benefit of the doubt.  He wants us to get mad, stay mad and thereby fuel the fire and never let it go.  Dumb.  Lame.  Remember the source of the negative.  Cast those thoughts out!  Insert every good intention you can think of.  Build your spouse up in your mind and to their face.  With so much, negative, be a builder.  Be a lover.  Be a friend- one who always looks for the good.

Here are some specific apples I'm going to be doing this week.

* mailing a note to his office....an encouraging, nice one.

* shaving my legs and doing my hair (in the same day! ha ha)

* then texting him and telling him what I did and that I can't wait for him to come home.

* then having dinner ready when he gets there. (boy, all in one day! I better ship off the kids! :))

* arrange a sitter for Temple night

* not saying one negative thing.  (i've been kind of a whiner lately.  it's hunting season. :))

* share funny things.  even if it has been a crazy day, take a deep breath, kiss him good and enjoy the time he's home.

What apples are you going to do this week?  Did you have a favorite talk from Conference?  What stuck out to you?  Have a great week!!!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

stress, it's a killer sir

When things at work get nuts for Zach and he's visibly stressed I try and have the house as organized as possible when he get's home.
If it can't be, then I clean just our room. Aren't I nice? :)

What do you do?

I mean heck, I know you are busy too. Maybe what you do is go out to eat so you don't have to be home!

If I can't have the house clean because I haven't been home either, I just kiss him for a long time before he looks at the house and then he's so happy he won't see the mess! :) it works.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

not a word...

The apple for the day is: when your spouse or you get home for the day just walk right up to them with a sweet, seductive, or some other [nice] look on your face and kiss them!-a nice one!

Enjoy! :)

Friday, April 8, 2011

Getaway, Giveaway!


I am THRILLED to announce I have a certificate sitting on my desk for a lucky couple to stay one night for free, HERE at the Best Western Landmark Inn at Park City Utah!!!

The room is available from April-June and September-December! Hopefully this falls around your anniversary! Even if it doesn't, we can all use a getaway right?

Here is what you need to do!

*Leave a comment and give me a reason why you think you deserve this getaway!

For an additional two entries...
*Become a follower of this blog! (tell me in your comment that you're a follower)
*Like and share An Apple a Day on Facebook! (again, tell me in your comment that you did this)

I will draw the winner at random on Friday April 15th in the AM and announce it that morning!
You have until Thursday the 14th of April at midnight mountain time to enter! Good luck!

You probably already know this, but I'll tell you again just in case! I am an advocate for doing "little things" to show love to your spouse. (I know, shocker!) I also advocate the big things...like getaways. Let me just say this, the big things mean more when we give priority to the little things!
So, the apple for the day is: take your love in your arms and tell them how much they mean to you. If you can't take them in your arms then write it down and mail it to them! It doesn't take long. They might not act like they care too much, but they'll think about it later and appreciate that moment and you more.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

I'm In A Hurry


The apple for the day is: when you talk to your spouse next, instead of getting right to business, take a second and show them appreciation. If it is first thing in the morning cuddle them or, if you're already up, hold them for a minute and tell them how much you appreciate them and how glad you are to be married to them.

Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year!!!

The apple for the day is:

Make out with your spouse! :) Okay, in addition to the kiss at the end of the night, tell your spouse what you are looking forward to this New year with them! Tell them how wonderful they are and the things you are excited about.
I can't think of a better way to start off than with a kind word and some optimism!

Happy New year!!! Have fun tonight!

Friday, September 3, 2010

need a favor?

Sometimes I just feel needy. I feel bad for asking favors of Zach because maybe I have asked a lot of him. But I do need his help and sometimes it isn't just help but love too.
What about making an exchange for the favor? If you do this for me, I'll do this for you. :)

There are days I just want to lay on the couch after the kids are in bed and have my feet rubbed. (sorry if feet gross you out. :))
This is always something you could just say but what if you make a cute note with a little poem explaining your dire need?

There is this man that I dream about
No cause for worry or pout
You are so sweet and so very nice
You add to my life a whole lot of spice!
I know you love shakes that is true
If you rub my feet I'll make one for you! :)

Nothing complicated but different. It doesn't seem as demanding to ask in this way does it?

Try that Apple! :)


Friday, August 27, 2010

Is it crazy?

This is the time of year that life seems to hit. School starts and we seem to just get sucked in to doing the everyday things.

The Apple of the day is: Brush your teeth and comb your hair and give your spouse a nice long kiss! Enjoy your weekend!

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

It's in...

the little things.

What are they though? What are the little things for you and your spouse?

hugs, kisses, notes with lunch, a favorite treat and a conversation a text that says I love you?

The apple for the day is: do as many of these as possible! It is the little things that matter! Make it a point to show your spouse you love em'! Have a great day!

Monday, April 26, 2010

missed it :)

Yeah, so I missed today...I hope you gave your spouse a kiss today and told them that you loved them!
That is my kind of apple! :)

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

dance to the music!

The apple for the day is: turn on some sweet music to dance to when you see your spouse come home tonight. Have it on before they come in the house if you can. Dance for a minute before you do anything else!

Monday, February 8, 2010

"An apple a day"

Remember affection today. Gosh, when Zach and I were dating we were looking for any reason to touch each other! Find a reason, make a reason. Be affectionate today.
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